Cover page of the canvas of your heart journal

FREE GRIEF REFLECTION JOURNAL

The Canvas of Your Heart

“Grief is the dark color that adds depth to the canvas, providing contrast and texture.” I read that line in The Wild Edge of Sorrow and could not put it down. It became a piece of writing, and along the way I kept asking questions.

Questions like those tend to slip away if we only meet them once. So I gathered them in this journal, with room to write. Eight grief journal prompts, free to download.

Eight questions, each with its own page.

  1. What would your canvas look like?
  2. What is the puzzle piece in your life right now?
  3. How can you approach grief with reverance?
  4. What practice could you start today?
  5. What would it feel like to walk without having a destination?
  6. What is your grief asking you to listen to?
  7. How could you honor your debt and build a deeper connection to yourself and the Earth?
  8. What is one being you could connect with this week?

Plus a closing page of small rituals you can keep. Lighting a candle once a week for someone you have lost. Walking with no destination and notice what calls to you. Leaving something you love outside and letting the weather take it back. Buy a small canvas and paint your grief.

  • One question at a time. You do not need to work through them in order, and you do not need to finish.
  • Print it, or type straight into it. It is made to be marked up either way.
  • Try one outside if you can. A porch, a park bench, a trail. Something in us answers differently under trees.
  • If a question lands hard, close the journal and come back. That is not avoidance, that is pacing.
  • Date your entries. The way your answers change is its own kind of record.

Who This Is For

Anyone carrying a loss, however recent or however old. Grief does not have a schedule and it does not only belong to the first year.

You do not need to be a writer. Some of these you will answer in a sentence. Some you will come back to in a year and find a completely different answer waiting. Both are the work.

This is not therapy and it is not a substitute for it. It is a quiet place to put things down, the way a walk is.

Kris Roberts, certified forest therapy guide in Northern Colorado

I am a certified forest therapy guide in Fort Collins, Colorado. I lead guided forest bathing walks for small groups, capped at ten so there is room for whatever you bring with you. If a group feels like too much right now, a private walk is a gentler way in. No experience is needed. Just a willingness to move slowly.

You can also read the piece these questions came from, or the story behind Evergreen Moose, which is really the story of the losses that led me here.

Download the journal

With gratitude and love, Kris